On Heidi's first day of school this year, this little boy's world was turned upside down. He didn't know how to function without his big sister bossing him around! The first few weeks of school both Lewis and Rhys wandered around the house, unsure on what they should do. They constantly asked me if it was time to go and pick Heidi up and he would get upset when Heidi had to go to school 'again' today! It was quite funny to watch how lost they were without her. It also showed what an integral part Heidi had played in 'leading' this pack.
After a month or so they realised that this is how life was now and Lewis started to find his feet. He shifted his hero focus from Heidi to Darryn. He is now Darryn's little mini man. The first two questions Lewis asks me every single morning without fail is "Where's Dad?" and "Does Dad have jeans on?" He has also most recently taken up Darryn's love of fishing.
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| Barra fishing on the Styx River |
Whilst we have only been invited once to go out on the boat with Darryn....
....Lewis is mastering the art of beach fishing.
He is happy to sit for hours and fish. He doesn't even care if he isn't catching anything. As long as he can cast his rod out and wind it in again - almost straight away - he is happy. Lewis cries when the time comes to pack up and return home.
He is even starting to catch a few.
He is already on his second fishing rod. He also reminds me every day that he wants a fishing shirt just like Dad's for his birthday.
Phase II in "I want to be just like my Dad" of course involves spending every day doing what Dad does. Lewis gets deeply offended if Darryn is unable to take him to work. Lewis has relished the role of 2IC. He knows more about what's going on around the place than I do! He comes home at lunch time full of stories about what his day has been filled with. It could be anything from Darryn shooting a dingo to finding a dead cow somewhere to whether or not the dogs behaved themselves. I really enjoy hearing his take on the events.
In between working and fishing he has also developed a keen sporting interest. He and Darryn kick the footy around almost every afternoon. He is constantly asking me to play tennis with him. He is also showing a keen interest in cricket.
And now, after attending Heidi's sports day, he is keen on all things athletic!
This beautiful little three year old absolutely idolises his Dad. Anyone who knew Darryn when he was small comments on how alike he is to Darryn at that age. He doesn't go anywhere without his shoes and socks on. He will not wear jeans unless Darryn is. He will not wear a long sleeved shirt unless Darryn is. He will only wear a cap if Darryn does. He will only go to bed when Darryn does. He only wants to go in the car if Darryn does. His birthday request list includes a fishing shirt (just like Dad's), a watch (just like Dad's) and a smoko box (just like Dad's). He's Daddy's boy! Despite that fact that I feed and care for his general wellbeing - he barely notices my presence! Lucky he's cute!!